From The Road Less Traveled

“In any case, when we avoid the legitimate suffering that results from dealing with problems, we also avoid the growth that problems demand from us.”

M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled (1978)

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Your Vocation

“Vocation does not mean a goal that I pursue.  It means a calling that I hear.  Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.”

Parker Palmer, Let Your Life Speak (1999)

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Are You Ready to Get Married?

“Nobody’s ready for marriage.  Marriage makes you ready for marriage… Marriage is a people-growing machine.”

David Schnarch, “The Sexual Ecology of Love Relationships,” SMU-in-Plano, March 10, 2011

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Recommended Journaling Tool: The Book of Me

photo (7)We find journaling rather helpful in getting to know ourselves, and would recommend this book, The Book of Me: A Do-It-Yourself Memoir. It’s for anyone trying to start journaling or who is just interested in connecting with thoughts about their life or the world. It is a journal with a lot of writing space and a lot of prompts that help jumpstart your thinking to write about lots of important stuff.

Here are some of the prompts contained in the pages:

  • What was the biggest emotional risk you ever took, and how did it play out? 
  • Both men and women
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Getting to Know Your Personality Type

photo (6)There are several personality assessments (or inventories) available out there – tools which help you learn about who you are and help explain your thinking, behavior, feelings and motivations. Below are some personality assessments we refer to and use with people. They have proven helpful to many in getting to know themselves better:

Myers-Briggs – http://www.myersbriggs.org/

The Enneagram – https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/

The Birkman Method – http://www.birkman.com/ (We also know a very talented and helpful Certified Birkman Consultant locally if you are interested.)

The human personality is a complex thing. No one instrument can capture the whole picture and account for all Read more